Studies confirm that caregivers play host to a high level
of compassion fatigue. Day in, day out, workers struggle to function in care
giving environments that constantly present heart wrenching, emotional challenges.
Affecting positive change in society, a mission so vital to those passionate
about caring for others, is perceived as elusive, if not impossible. This painful
reality, coupled with first-hand knowledge of society's flagrant disregard for
the safety and well being of the feeble and frail, takes its toll on everyone
from full time employees to part time volunteers. Eventually, negative attitudes
prevail.
Compassion Fatigue symptoms are normal displays of chronic
stress resulting from the care giving work we choose to do. Leading traumatologist
Eric Gentry suggests that people who are attracted to care giving often enter
the field already compassion fatigued. A strong identification with helpless,
suffering, or traumatized people or animals is possibly the motive. It is common
for such people to hail from a tradition of what Gentry labels: other-directed
care giving. Simply put, these are people who were taught at an early age to
care for the needs of others before caring for their own needs. Authentic, ongoing
self-care practices are absent from their lives.
If you sense that you are suffering from compassion fatigue,
chances are excellent that you are. Your path to wellness begins with one small
step: awareness. A heightened awareness can lead to insights regarding past
traumas and painful situations that are being relived over and over within the
confines of your symptoms and behaviors. With the appropriate information and
support, you can embark on a journey of discovery, healing past traumas and
pain that currently serve as obstacles to a healthy, happier lifestyle.
Many resources are available to help you recognize the causes
and symptoms of compassion fatigue. Healing begins by employing such simple
practices as regular exercise, healthy eating habits, enjoyable social activities,
journaling, and restful sleep. Hopefully, the information on this website will
be of use to you and help you jump-start your process.
Accepting the presence of compassion fatigue in your life
only serves to validate the fact that you are a deeply caring individual. Somewhere
along your healing path, the truth will present itself: You don't have to make
a choice. It is possible to practice healthy, ongoing self-care while successfully
continuing to care for others. |